Friends are one of the best things any of us have. But when friendships go sour, it is generally advised that those friends should be cut off, after trying to salvage that friendship hard enough of course. But what if the opposite happens? What about when and if you fall for your friend, be infatuated by them, feel romantically for them? That can be a pretty tricky place to be in. In fact, many a times we don't even know exactly how we feel, let alone what to do next.
But here are some things you can keep in mind.
Figure out how deep your feelings are
Is it just an infatuation? Or has this been building up for a while? Could this be love? These are things that one must consider before you do anything about these feelings, or even torture yourself with them. That way you get to decide if you need to talk to them about this. You need to scope out the scene and see how hot or cold your friend may be about this.
You would think that it is okay to not talk about these things to your friend so that nothing gets weird. But not talking will only make it worse for you, torture your soul. Talking to them will clear the air and you both can come up with a solution together.
Yes, you would want things to go a certain way but to expect that that happens is not fair towards your friend. Be prepared for any reaction and be prepared to accept whatever your friend decides
Also read: 3 Things To Do If You're Feeling Confused In A Relationship