What do you think is the best part about sex? "The orgasm, of course," is going to be many people's response, I bet. But you see, sex isn't always about the orgasm, it is as much about the journey as it is about the destination. But for today, let's just focus on the destination and not the journey - that we will save for later.
Today, let us just talk about how to make those seconds of absolute bliss at the culmination of passionate love-making even better. Let's talk about the things we can do to make sure that our orgasms are far from routine. You know, because that certainly is one way to keep the soul happy.
Yes, you read that right. I know the urge to climax is all consuming in that moment but stop - just when you are about to orgasm, pull back and don't. If you edge towards your orgasms after delaying it for a while, the final orgasm is going to be so, so explosive. Trust. You. Me. It is not a hard thing to do really, especially when you know what's waiting for you at the end.
Kegel exercises, anyone?
It is said that only women perform Kegel exercises to strengthen their vaginal muscles and eventually their orgasms. But men can do these exercises too. For men, the idea is to exercise their penis in order to make sex more intense. You basically squeeze your pelvic muscles when you are peeing, contract and release them. It's that simple. It also helps in dealing with the issue of premature ejaculation.
Amp up the foreplay
Oxycontin is released when there is increasing level of cuddling, kissing, love making - basically when you are bonding emotionally or physically with another person. Therefore, amp up the foreplay and make the whole thing more passionate for the purpose of intensifying the orgasm. It is winding up the body to the highest level before you release, and the release is so much sweeter.
Slow, sweet, better.