So you're a busy person. Good for you. But is it as good for your relationship? You might not have thought about it, but there are more ways than one in which you can neglect your partner and make them feel less than wanted. Not having sex regularly is definitely one of those ways.
Now you may be tired, thanks to that 9 to 9 job - and we understand that you've got to work hard - but making time for sex is as good for you as it is for your relationship. So here's how can make time to have sex and cozy up with your partner, even if you have the busiest life and most hectic schedule.
1. Switch off that television
How many times have you come home, plonked yourself on the couch and watched television instead of talking to your partner? Many times, we're sure. We all do it, don't we? But think about how many times out of these you could have actually spent some quality time with your partner and, perhaps, had sex? Many times. We get that sometimes you're just tired and want to unwind by just sitting quietly and watching some TV, but there are other times that you could just be spending that time with your partner. So use your TV time better and your sex life will definitely improve too.
2. Get away for some alone time
How about booking yourself a hotel room in the city that you live in every once in a while, even if you don't have the time to actually get away. In order for your sex life to flourish, it's extremely important for you to spend some quality time with each other. If you don't spend enough time having a good time and relaxing together, you'll find it hard to also stay as attracted to each other as you might have been in the beginning. So take out the time and get away. Just the two of you.
3. Get off your phone
Same concept as the television. Technology really has taken over, hasn't it? And here, we don't mean it in a good way. Get off your phone and concentrate on your partner. All those pictures on Instagram won't make you half as happy as actually having a great round of sex with your lover. Take our word on that.
4. Talk about sex
The more you vocalise what you want, the more the chances that you'll actually get it. Just thinking about wanting to have sex, but never letting your partner know that you desire them and want to make love, will get you nowhere. Instead, talk about sex. Through naughty text messages or just by outright saying it. This way the anticipation that you build will ensure that you make time for sex.
5. Schedule a date night
Once a week or even once a month if you're too busy. But this is important. Regularly scheduling a date night - without phones, televisions, kids, friends and family - is very important. You need to spend time with each other in a romantic setting and talk your hearts out. Talk about things other than your everyday mundane routines. Go out for a nice dinner, maybe drink some nice wine and then follow it up with some sexy time.
You can thank us later.
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