Pakistani actress Mahira Khan is a celebrated actress and now also a doting mother. Recently, the actress walked down memory lane as she celebrated her son Azlan's birthday. To mark her son's special day, the star shared a major throwback picture of the first photo she clicked with him. In the post, Mahira looked radiant as she adored her baby boy lying beside her in a cot. Sharing the pictures, she also made a revelation that she became a mom at the age of 24. She wrote, “A 24-year-old me, looking at my entire world stare at me-my one and my only Azlan.” Like Mahira, if you too are a young mother, you will know that the very great but rewarding responsibility comes with its share of stressors. So we have listed some helpful tips for managing motherhood as a young mother.
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Parenting Tips For Young Moms
1. Openness to seeking help and advice
Becoming a mother at a young age comes with changes, both mental and physical. One of the most effective ways to manage this new phase of life is to seek help and advice from family, one's partner's family, and even those in one's larger support system like friends and extended family who are already parents. This could help one grasp the parenting process quicker, while also allowing you a much-needed breather, every so often.
2. Make time for yourself by sharing the responsibility
Although the concept of free time is a challenge when one becomes a parent, it is essential to take some time out for oneself, even if it's an hour in a day. Take a break from your duties by involving your partner in the daily parenting responsibilities and spend the time focusing on yourself. Small treats like getting a haircut, working out or watching one's favourite TV show can help one feel reinvigorated to take on the rest of one's day.
3. Be patient with the process
Like any other role, motherhood isn't a magic spell and one may not learn how to ace it overnight. Mistakes will be made, but over time one can surely learn how to parent one's child in a way that meets one's own high standards. In the meantime, a healthy approach to the learning process involves practising patience and not allowing oneself to be overwhelmed with remorse or guilt when one doesn't get it right. Soon enough, you will ride the learning curve into a steady routine that works for you and your baby.
4. Trust your instincts
One shouldn't be afraid to trust one's instincts when unsure of what one's child needs. For instance, if you find your baby crying, trust your gut to know whether they are hungry or sleepy and take action accordingly. When in doubt, do not hesitate to consult an expert. But over time, one can hone one's instincts and feel confident enough to recognise the needs and wants of one's baby.
5. Talk about it
As a young mom, one may find it hard to cope with lifestyle changes. Believe it or not, you are not the only one who may feel that way. Whatever your concerns or feelings, whether you are suffering from postpartum depression or even if you just want to vent, talking about your concerns to well-wishers and experts can only help. Consider opening up to other young mothers and normalising not being okay.
Motherhood may come with a lot of challenges, especially when you are a young mother. However, experts often advise that building and cultivating a strong support system is often the trick to allowing yourself to experience the joys of motherhood in full measure.
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