Fights with a family member, friends and other loved ones can be really stressful. Not only do they bring you down in the moment they are happening but if it is one of those long drawn out fights, it tends to affect other aspects and areas of your life as well. But more importantly, if not resolved, a fight can lead to a sour relationship with someone who was once close to us, or worse break relationships apart. But there are certain steps one can take to resolve a fight with a loved one. Here’s what to keep in mind.
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Let go of the pride
No matter who is right or wrong, someone has to take the first step to start a conversation and sort things out. If you happen to know that the other person is just too stubborn, be the bigger person and take the first step to talk. Chances are high that your effort will be appreciated and the other person will soften up.
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Talk clearly
Whatever issue you may want to address, speak about it clearly and in as many words instead of assuming that the other person will simply get it. Even if the conversation is uncomfortable, you need to get to the root of the actual problem so that it is solved once and for all. Might as well dig deep than solve just the superficial issues. You may be surprised by how deep-rooted the real problem is.
Face the situation alone
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You may be tempted to get some back up, other people to support you. But don’t. Handle the situation on your own so that the other person doesn’t feel ambushed. You can seek advice from trusted family members and friends, of course, but involving them is not a good idea.
