Meeting people at the bar is always a fun idea. If you have the right attitude and the will to do it, not only can you make great friends but maybe even more at a club or a bar. With the brewery and bar culture that is coming up in major cities of the country, It is not surprising that people are also now embracing the idea of conversing and interacting with interesting strangers at a bar the local watering hole.
But when you are flirting with someone at a bar, there are a few things to definitely not do. Here is what you need to keep in mind.
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Get the hint if they aren't keen
When you approach someone at a bar, either by joining in their conversation or offering them a drink, if they aren't very enthusiastic about your presence, get the hint and back off. No one likes a pushy person.
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Be courteous, confident and charming
Being bawdy, too forward or overly friendly or familiar is not a great idea especially when you are still trying to gauge whether the parties are interested or not. The way to go forward is to keep the charm on and be courteous when talking to people.
Talk about something interesting
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Take interest in what they are watching, or how they look, or what they are talking about. Ask for recommendations for a drink or a food, or broach a conversation about what are the other things to do in the area, etc.